What are the Signs of Suicide and Self-Harm?
Suicide and self-harm are serious issues that require attention and intervention. Here are some warning signs to look out for:
Warning Signs of Self-Harm
- Sudden behavior changes such as becoming withdrawn, moody, or irritable
- Being sad or depressed, crying
- Changes in eating habits, such as overeating or undereating
- Wearing long sleeves or pants, even in hot weather
- Having unexplained cuts, bruises, or burns
- Spending a lot of time alone
- Expressing feelings of worthlessness or guilt
- Talking about suicide or death
Warning Signs of Suicide
- Talking about wanting to die or to kill oneself
- Looking for a way to kill oneself, such as searching online or obtaining a gun
- Talking about feeling hopeless or having no reason to live
- Misusing substances like drugs or alcohol
- Feeling no sense of purpose or belonging
- Anger
- Feeling trapped (feeling like there is no way out)
- Hopelessness (feeling there is nothing to live for)
- Withdrawal (from family, friends, work, school, activities, or hobbies)
- Anxiety (restlessness, irritability, or agitation)
- Recklessness (high risk-taking behavior)
- Severe mood swings or highs and lows
- Looking for ways to die (e.g., internet searches for how to commit suicide; looking for guns or pills)
- Talking about hopelessness, helplessness, or worthlessness
- Thinking about death a lot
- Suddenly acting happier or calmer after a period of depression or moodiness
It is important to note that these warning signs do not necessarily mean that someone is suicidal or self-harming, but they may indicate that someone is struggling and needs help. If you or someone you know is experiencing any of these warning signs, it is important to seek help from a mental health professional or a crisis hotline.
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What are some resources for getting help for someone who may be suicidal or self-harming?
If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal or self-harming thoughts, there are resources available to help. Here are some resources that can provide support and assistance:Hotlines and Textlines:
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- Hopeline Network: 1-800-442-4673 (HOPE)
- Aynda En Español: 1-888-628-9454
- Trevor Lifeline (LGBTQ+): 1-866-488-7386
- Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255
Websites:
- Suicide Prevention Resource Center: https://www.sprc.org/
- American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: https://afsp.org/
- National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention/index.shtml
Other Resources:
- Seek help from a mental health professional or a healthcare provider.
- Call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room if you or someone you know is in immediate danger.
It is important to remember that help is available and that seeking help is a sign of strength. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal or self-harming thoughts, do not hesitate to reach out for help.
What are some common myths about suicide and self-harm?
There are many myths surrounding suicide and self-harm that can prevent people from seeking help or understanding these issues. Here are some common myths and the facts that debunk them:
Myths about Self-Harm
- Myth: Self-harm is a suicide attempt. Fact: Self-harm can occur without suicidal ideation. Individuals who self-harm often do not intend to end their lives. Instead, they are using self-harm to cope with emotions or trauma.
- Myth: Self-harm is an attention-seeking behavior. Fact: Self-harm is a coping mechanism that individuals use to deal with emotional pain. It is not done for attention.
- Myth: People who self-harm are crazy or mentally ill. Fact: Self-harm is a behavior that can be seen in people with and without mental illness. It is a coping mechanism that individuals use to deal with emotional pain.
Myths about Suicide
- Myth: People who are suicidal want to die. Fact: The majority of people who feel suicidal do not actually want to die; they just want the situation they’re in or the way they’re feeling to stop.
- Myth: Talking about suicide will give someone the idea to try it. Fact: Talking about suicide can actually help prevent it by allowing individuals to express their feelings and seek help.
- Myth: Suicide can’t be prevented. Fact: Suicide is preventable but unpredictable. Most people who contemplate suicide, if given the right support and resources, can recover and go on to live fulfilling lives.
It is important to understand the facts about suicide and self-harm in order to provide support and help to those who need it.
What are some effective treatments for self-harm and suicidal ideation?
Effective treatments for self-harm and suicidal ideation can vary depending on the individual’s needs and the underlying causes of their behavior. Here are some treatments that have been shown to be helpful:
Treatments for Self-Harm
- Therapy: Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and psychodynamic therapy have been shown to be helpful for people who self-harm. These therapies can help individuals identify and manage underlying issues that trigger self-harm behavior, learn healthy coping skills, and maintain emotional equilibrium to help manage negative emotions.
- Medication: In some cases, medication for anxiety or depression, or to help with sleeping, may be prescribed.
- Hospitalization: If an individual’s self-harm behavior is a threat to their life, or if they need medical treatment for their injuries, hospitalization may be necessary.
Treatments for Suicidal Ideation
- Therapy: Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and psychodynamic therapy have been shown to be helpful for individuals with suicidal ideation. These therapies can help individuals identify and manage underlying issues that trigger suicidal thoughts, learn healthy coping skills, and maintain emotional equilibrium to help manage negative emotions.
- Medication: Antidepressants and other medications may be prescribed to help manage symptoms of depression or anxiety.
- Hospitalization: If an individual’s suicidal ideation is a threat to their life, or if they have attempted suicide, hospitalization may be necessary.
It is important to seek help from a mental health professional or healthcare provider to determine the best course of treatment for an individual’s specific needs.
Learn the signs of Suicides and Self-Harm
Suicide and self-harm are serious mental health issues that can have devastating consequences. If you are concerned that someone you know may be struggling with either of these issues, it is important to reach out for help.
Here are some of the signs that someone may be thinking about suicide:
- Talking about wanting to die or feeling like they have nothing to live for
- Making plans for suicide, such as researching methods or giving away possessions
- Acting recklessly or taking unnecessary risks
- withdrawing from friends and family
- experiencing changes in mood, such as becoming more depressed or anxious
- experiencing changes in behavior, such as sleeping more or less, eating more or less, or isolating themselves
- having thoughts of self-harm
If you see any of these signs, it is important to talk to the person about your concerns. Let them know that you care about them and that you are there to help. You can also encourage them to seek professional help.
Here are some of the signs that someone may be self-harming:
- Visible injuries, such as cuts, burns, or bruises
- Wearing long sleeves or pants in hot weather to hide injuries
- Sudden changes in behavior, such as becoming withdrawn or aggressive
- Changes in mood, such as becoming more depressed or anxious
- Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
- Increased use of alcohol or drugs
If you see any of these signs, it is important to talk to the person about your concerns. Let them know that you care about them and that you are there to help. You can also encourage them to seek professional help.
If you are concerned that someone you know may be thinking about suicide or self-harm, please reach out for help. There are many resources available to help people who are struggling with these issues. You can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or visit their website at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. You can also call the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741.
Remember, you are not alone. There is help available.

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